So this is where we're at now? Threatening paying customers for voicing opinions that run counter to your own? If you're going to refund my deposit, I sure hope you're planning to offer the same courtesy to everyone else in this thread
I'm fine with waiting (I've said as much repeatedly), and I'm fine with a refund if they're being offered. What I am NOT fine with, is the project leader suggesting that people don't have a right to voice dissatisfaction or that he's above having to hear it.
And I merely offered a
suggestion, from a place of
experience (fifteen years self-employed, heading countless pre-order products in that time including a $600k Kickstarter) that if he doesn't want to listen to complaints and people jumping ship, that the best way to head them off is to stay communicative. To not let a month go by without updates, even if its just confirmation of the status-quo. If you leave a vacuum of interaction, your customers will start to fill it with doubt and anxiety.
Nobody is questioning Yunsil's ability to sew a great dress, or Chili's commitment to following this project through and not disappear with the money. I don't think anybody is even questioning the wait; we're all accustomed to long wait times in this hobby. What
is a point of contention for this particular product is the sheer open-endedness of it. The fact that no one can say for certain that the proper fabric will ever be made available in the quantity required, or if a suitable substitute will be found.
I don't doubt that nobody here is more frustrated by it than Chili, but suggesting that nobody else is allowed to voice frustration over this point is not the way to handle the community of people that did in fact fund this venture.
But hey man, you do whatever your spiteful nature directs you to